[Clyde65]

How is he accepting money? Through PP or?

What I understand, he and his dad run the business. His dad had a major health issue and had to be hospitalized and it was touch and go. Maybe something happened again so this is where his attention went.

Ill be straight forward, if it was my dad, everything I am doing can go to hell, I will take care of him because that (IMO) is what your supposed to do.

If we are truly the family of enthusiasts that we profess, lets not judge or be harsh in this situation.
I bet that you and I have pissed away more money than the cost of this harness countless times all because we were stupid or anxious. This guy needs our support and prayers.