Just went and did some measurements. I think I may still be good on the door and cab. Was just way off on the fender.
The bottom of that blue tape is where the white needs to go up to. I just stuck that beat up trim on to see how it would look. Moving it also seemed to help with the optical illusion that the parking lamp stamping was off. The bottom trim certainly isn't in line with each other, but that must be normal. It's following the contour lines in the fender