Can understand your emotional connection but things will work out in the long term.
Anything can be repaired...we are all just so glad that neither of you were injured.
Hoods (bonnets) and front panels are available over here...even rear ends etc.
Biggest issue would be if the chassis is twisted or now not fully square...
Lets hope the insurance folk agree to repair it...if they write it off, buy it back and do the repairs yourself.
Stay in touch...
