Here is an update:
The Eaton style posi, carrier bearing stud kit, and Moser diff cover are finally installed. I also installed the BellTech lowering kit, BEL-686SP. I didn't like how high the rear still sat after the install.
I took the springs out and asked the local spring and axle shop to de-arch them. Now it sits like a 3/5 drop should. A couple of pics, one just the 95 and another next to an older square body.