[LeRoy]

I feel your pain. I too am going thru the same mess and the best thing is to just keep busy. I believe things happen for a reason. I agree that you shouldn't take him to the cleaners. That just makes things worse. Sounds like you have the right attitude. If you need to get away, bring the kiddies down and my boy and I will take you guys to the beach or something. In the Blaz of course. Chin up!!! That darn saying "what doesn't kill you will only make you stronger" keeps running thru my head, lol