I did find this harness
http://cnj.craigslist.org/pts/3632898270.html
but finding a separate pcm has me worried. I think one of the car-part.com pull outs will probably be my best bet, like you guys have said. Eh oh well, never hurts to look.
Did find this too, but no price listed.
http://delaware.craigslist.org/pts/3604249408.html