so a friend of mine gave me the idea of running a diode off the g wire to the junction at the brake light wire.
http://frys.com/product/1799257?site...H:MAIN_RSLT_PG
this would essentially make that 9/10v stay only on the G wire and not impact the brake light wire. this way the faint brake light illumination would stop but when I press the brake pedal and it sends 12v to the brake lights it would also send 12v to the G wire back to the cruise module.
so that I think would solve the brake light issue but still doesn't help figure out why the cruise control wont work