You don't need to wire up the relay to act as a relay. You can use just the coil side of it wired to the cold side of the brake light switch and ground, the cruise will see it's ground through the coil and allow it to work. This is how I do mine and they work perfectly. I use micro relays, solder the wires to the terminals and tape it up in the harness. You can see a pic in my build thread post #122
http://ls1tech.com/forums/conversion...-c-10-a-7.html It's doing the same thing as a resistor, but they don't get as hot as a resistor can get.