Thanks for all the tips, I've found a few diagrams at lmc truck page 128 and 129 that has the diagrams and explanations of what i need.
Yes napa again sent us the wrong pitman arm and now I have a reference of what it looks like.
The only problem I have at this point is to modify the steering arm . It seems as though it needs to be shortened as well as bored out to fit the proper drag link. which shouldn't be too big of a deal.
Couldn't have gotten this far without all the help. Ill be sure to post a followup post with pictures to summarize this pia project !
Thanks again for everyones help.